I’m usually that guy who reads all the rules carefully when I enter a tournament, especially those with long and complicated rules like our state tournaments or the USBC Open Championships. But with the horror that has been our lives this year with my girlfriend Susie battling breast cancer and the deaths of my mom and Susie’s dad in September and my brother in November, I’ve been struggling just to keep up with critical things. That means I’ve skipped some things I...